DID THEY ASK YOU OR DID YOU OFFER?

 Hi there my Top Notch Divas & Dudes! Listen! Have they asked you for help or are you always offering? Now, That is the question. Get Yourself out of The Loop! That loop of showing up for people who only wants you around when you are beneficial for them. The loop of realizing that every smiling face is not really truth, some of those smiles are being forced and just because you lead with love doesn't mean that everyone in your cicumfrence is being genuine. Believe it or not my readers, it is Not Only friends and associates who mistreat you, your time and service. In my life, It Is Definitely business owners as well. 

Usually it is not those who are not professional themselves. You know there are many people who are business owners who have no ethics, morals, or professionalism. These are people that you should be aware of. They are kind to you verbally however their actions show that they should not be trusted. It is up to you whether you see and acknowledge actions over your needs to assist them to the level they claim they want. And yes, it is so unfortunate because we want so much better for the underdog. The ones that are always overlooked. They telll you they want much more than what they have now, But I am starting to See Why some people are the underdog. Literally they mistreat the ones that will help them get to the level they need, 

I can tell myself constantly, walk away and don't answer but as soon as time passes and the fog goes away, I am back helping people that will only leave me in the dark after they are done using me. At this point, I am so over it. I get asked to help these owners rebrand, bring the customers and they either don't want to pay for anything or they ask me do it all with no plans to follow through on the work that I have put in place. Literally one associate told me they need a revamp. Once I did a review to see what was needed, there was nothing already in place. Literally they had 0 presence online, not even a email to contact. I ended up putting their email together, adding their business on several websites including google (unfortunately many people don't know  how to do this). started a hiring event for their staff, all for me to be ghosted when it was time to meet up and go over the business systems put in place. 

My life literally feels like I am surrounded by a bunch of people who do not value what I do, my time, my effort or my heart. I am so exhausted as an entrepreneur I just want to say forget it all. But then I look at all of my hard work and to just give it up is so sad. But why should I continue? Literally I am not making money from this. I heard something very true the other day. It was, "If your business is not creating a return, it is just a hobby".  I don't wanna hobby anymore. I am too old to hobby. So I have to consistently walk away, focus on my business alone. Forget about the people you knew and embrace any new people you may meet. 

What will happen moving forward is beyond me, but I Must get out of the Matrix of being used & surrounded by people who are not for rme. The saddest thing is as an entrepreneur, there is Literally nobody to tell this to. I guess blogging may be one of the hobbies I hold on to. It actually keeps me sane. 

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Your Fave Entrepreneur,
Philicia Jones
aka Phi The Diva

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