WHEN SEEKING HAPPINESS FROM OTHERS CAN LEAD YOU TO PAIN FROM WITHIN

Hi my divas and dudes. This blog may be hard one for many. At times we try and hide our life pain by finding joy in others. But today I want to inform you that although finding happiness in others is a beautiful thing when genuine, it can also be harmful as people often change. And if you have found happiness in anyone but yourself, the chance of you being heart broken unfortunately is much greater than true happiness from anyone other than Yourself. 

In life we must remember to love on ourself. You are fun, sweet, cool and a joy to be with and around. Sometimes people will see that and sometimes they won't. As long as you remain positive & internally happy with yourself, that will be what matters. 

Don't get me wrong it's so much fun hanging with people close to you. Friends,family and even the ones you are dating or in a relationship with. But what happens on mad day? When they are upset with you or maybe just don't want to be bothered at all. How does that make you feel? Do they even care about how you feel? 

In the event that you focus on you then you will be fine either way. But if for any chance you love the people that surrounds you more than you love yourself. The set up for real pain will be waiting. Not because anyone is bad but because they are human. So if anything, love yourself and those around you but count love given as joy but don't make it something to rely on. 

I wish I could tell you all something different but reality is people comes & people  go. The only remains with You forever.... is You. 

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