LET IT ALL WORK OUT

 Hi my Top Notch Divas and Dudes! There is always a plan working on your behalf. Alot of times in life we are saddened by the things that we may go through. Friendships and Relationships hurt us,  relationships end, business goes up and down, health sways. All of these things are so important in our life it affects us heavily and in some cases negatively. But I want to share something with you today. The only thing that you have control over is you. 

People that hurt you will have to bear the burden of losing you once things end. Most times they are just feeding ego or better yet have others giving advice that may steer them wrong or cause a break in your chemistry. But, their actions are out of your control. Remember to always remain a good person. Continue to do right in the eyes of the people that are watching & As things are brought to your attention, address and move accordingly. 

I remember fighting depression and as I am trying to come out of the phase I would continue to be attacked by people I loved. And guess what my reaction was, FIGHT BACK. Yes, like many of us felt backed into a corner when we feel attacked, we tend to fight back. But let me share with you when the dust settles from all of the emotion going through your mind, heart and body... Fighting back won't Always be the best option. Especially if you are like me and you fight to win. Know that somebody is getting hurt deeper when it's over. I'm learning to breathe and walk away... Literally. Don't react and Don't try and get back at anyone because the truth is it only hurts you and your character. Just go and those who value you will try and save what they love and those who don't value you will continue on and go. You may hurt in the beginning but trust me the pain passes.It is always best to let it go then to constantly hurt yourself by staying in or around bad situations. 

If it doesn't help you, it hurts you. And believe me, pain does not help in no way.

Like I said, there will always be someone that can get hurt in situations where we seek revenge. You don't want to have the same hurt someone does to you placed on your heart. At the end of the day, we must remember that sometimes relationships come in your life for a reason or a season. Although we would love to have lifetime partners that will be with us forever, this will not be the case for everyone. Be ok with knowing that is ok. Enjoy each moment that brings happiness and forget those moments of pain. 

When it comes to business, know that things will fluctuate daily. The best thing to do is remember to plan for the low moments and celebrate the highs. They all come back around. It's not the situation that will get you down its being able to maintain peace in the middle of adversity. I hope this helps! Go out and share love with someone! You never know who needs it. Thank you for Reading! Don't forget to follow me online & keep up with all things Top Notch. 

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Phi The Diva

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