THE TRUTH BEHIND LOSING CLOSE FRIENDS

Hi my Top Notch Divas & Dudes! This blog may be the one you love. Let's talk about Losing the ones that have been close to you. There will be so many times in life where we have to wonder, "Am I chasing after people that are not really my friend? Do they really like me or is it a Facade?" Since I was young, I had an issue with holding on to friendships forever. I mean, not Many people understand my quirkiness so once we become close friends, we are pretty much down til the end. At least on my end. I just wasn't aware that I may be the only person who feels this way. But In reality, we all get older, wiser (or not) and most often times we view things, people, actions, etc. differently. And sometimes people's mind have a tendency to change about life & about you. 

Oh my when I realized this, it was very hard to deal with. "What do you mean not liking ME anymore? What did I do to anyone?" These are questions that I was asking myself after realizing the people that I once loved no longer loved me. OR at least those are the feelings that I was receiving. Life from a friendship, romantic and family standpoint was really... how can I say... Weird. 

But once realization hit that people actually have their own right to change, move on, disappear or grow apart and guess what, although we would LOVE to know why or what happened, no explanation is due. Because just like we are ourselves have to make internal decisions about our life without hearing from anyone else, so do others. Even if it affects us. WOW right? I tell you guys, sometimes I just sit and an epiphany hits me all at once. Because Life is hard already and when you begin to lose so many people that were once close to you, it tends to be mind boggling. But, that is why I always end up being OK with where life takes me. I go through things and life and share them with YOU. And hopefully, this blog will reach someone else who may have been experiencing a loss of friends and loved ones lately. 

Keep your head up. Trust me life gets better. Who and what you need will always be available to you if you just hold on and stay the course of your vision. 

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